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How do you deal with a relationship ending? Genuinely care for one another. Both a tad too selfish and short sighted to progress a healthy relationship. Each wanting more but seemingly something different. Expectations bubbling to the top in ways that make you each know to yourself that this won't work but you continue to try... until one of you doesn't. Then anger and resentment? Is there any way this can be amicable? Both sides hurt because there was so much blind faith the other would act differently, but never up to the standard of those aforementioned expectations. Both will be missed dearly, but lives will improve. How are all these emotions, feelings, actions, memories transformed into "move on"?
- people don't change, they eventually learn to accept. if that time hasent come yet, go out and bang till you feel it's the right time and try again.moldero
- sounds like a communication problem. maybe see a councilor?yurimon
- "Keep banging till it's right"pango
- we dont know enough to comment really.yurimon
- i think my method is the worst: isolation and an impossible goal. zero processing, just diversion. I simply forget the other person after some tl(can't really).sted
- moldy said it. people don't change, at least not without an effort. i've changed things only to be disappointed when the other person did nothing to improve.sea_sea
- I wish moldy would put some effort for his own enlightenment.yurimon
- I wish you would refrain from commenting on other's enlightenment, as if you are implying you're more enlightened yourself, or if that actually meant anythingmonospaced
- it all can be discussed in deep conversation plus i was busting his chops. its guy thing sorry gfyurimon