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    I am dating a smoker and it is really starting to bug me that she smokes and it is affecting me more than I ever thought it would.

    This is not good. I really like her.

    It makes me want to control all of her unhealthy habits and that is really not good. I don't want to tell her how to live her life.

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    • give her something else to suck on.
      https://www.youtube.…      pango
    • i meant vape... bro...pango
    • thats actually a good idea. thanks.docpoz
    • but is vape healthy? doesnt seem like it. although it would be less annoying from a 3rd person standpoint... hm....docpoz
    • i wouldn't use the word healthy. but less harmful. the only annoying things is the idea of vape and the obnoxious amount of smoke. otherwise it smells quitepango
    • nice imo.pango
    • http://s2.quickmeme.…omg
    • the vape has electrolytesmoldero
    • if you want to break up keep giving her a hard time about smoking.Gnash
    • every smoker already knows all the reasons not to smoke. either put up with it or end it but stop moaning to her about it.Gnash
    • Start smoking. Sorted.set
    • I hate that toodrake-von-drake
    • does she have interest in quitting?bklyndroobeki
    • does she smell like cigarettes? is she getting dried up? and is it chain smoking?yurimon
    • i've learned you cannot directly stop smokers from smoking. you just end up being a meddling pest to their hobby of smokeomg
    • just get her pregnant, she would be forced to quit.yurimon
    • kiddin. it depends on your tolerance level of her frequency, times and over all habit. some smoke only if they socially drink, prob for me an annoying factoryurimon
    • would be if the woman smoked everytime you step outside. or a chain smoker.yurimon
    • is she healthy over all? imagine her in 10-20 years of her habits including dieting. if you get annoyed every time she smokes then its deal breaker.yurimon
    • also priorities of life. on one hand you have a habit, already known to be unhealthy and on the other you have potential for a good relationship.yurimon
    • i'd pick the relationship over an unhealthy habit every time.yurimon
    • how come every time you make an attempt to talk about normal human stuff you sound like a fuckkng freak yuri? Holy shit it's creepy.monospaced
    • Lolpango
    • docpoz u sound like my gf 2 years ago when we had to "talk" about my bad habits :) it was fucking awesome how she managed to get me off from smoking.sted
    • she used reverse psychology what i just realized few week after, but it was enough to begin to quit :) yeah sometimes I fall back but wtf)sted
    • There's nothing wrong with talking about how it's affecting you with her. If she's on your same level, it will give her something to think aboit.sea_sea
    • I know I slowly stopped after my person expressed his dislike. At least it made me more aware and considerate of him. It wasn't all about me anymore.sea_sea
    • mono, your little bitchy exaggerated responses are creepy.yurimon
    • and quit stalking me you creep!yurimon
    • You deserve each other.aiapaec
    • As Sted said. If she's feeling you as much as you are feeling her then she'll maybe think about stopping to keep you. My now wife didnt like me smoking ...microkorg
    • ... id always been looking for a real excuse to stop as never had the willpower or need to before. So I stopped for both myself and her.microkorg
    • I was neither exaggerating nor stalking you dumb shit. Go back to the politics thread and leave normal to the primates please.monospaced
    • creepy mono is getting creepieryurimon
    • when you resort to repeating someone, you just look like you're out of ideasmonospaced
    • oh, here we go cant quit. sometimes i feel like you are like a scorned woman. https://cdn3.volusio…yurimon
    • Ask her about the vapor things. I ended a relationship with a girl because I just couldn't stand the taste.formed
    • Afterwards, she simply said "if you had told me I would have used the vapor things". Good compromise, then worry later about her quitting altogether.formed
    • sea that's awesome. "love someone other than yourself"bklyndroobeki
    • thanks, everyone.docpoz
    • Saw a man with a baby stroller in daylight crowded Chinatown, butts hanging off dat-cig while he was holding/walking the stroller w/ 2 hands. all this to say...bklyndroobeki
    • look on the bright side. LOLbklyndroobeki
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