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    Met an amazing women at a conference in Chicago. Smart, passionate, sexy, beautiful, talented, artistic. We hit it off but now I'm not sure what to do. She has a BF. She goes to school in NY and is from Chicago. I want to tell her I love her lolz :(

    I feel like a kid that went to summer camp and fell in love after his first kiss.

    I want to do something that will melt her heart.

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    • don't ask a bunch of antisocial nerds what to do with your love life. blind leading the blind on here. didn't you see the sad loser responses on pocket's rantgilgamush
    • Lol. Yes. I can relate. I guess the motto is just go for it.Hayoth
    • um what i meant to say was leave it alone bro, there's millions of them. she told you bout bf, thats it, she was just being nice to you, relaxgilgamush
    • and by relax i mean just relax and be you, things like romance happen in their own time, don't pressure yourself, it doesn't help anything, just adds anxietygilgamush
    • if you guys hit it off, you could be friends, if at some point her relationship goes south, however dont get emotionally involved n still live n date.yurimon
    • if ever presented with an opportunity if it works out where you got to know each other take it. if not dont sweat it. but dont turn it into a fantasy. just liveyurimon
    • and see if you find other nice ones, because either way you dont know until you try but you have to sense n judge correctly if time comes. but dont expectyurimon
    • anything just be the best you can be without driving yourself crazy.yurimon
    • You remind me of my ex. Right before he cheated on me.sea_sea
    • ^ bazingaGnash
    • Don't do something that will "melt her heart". That's something a kid in love would think of. Do something that will impress her. Something unrelated to her.iCanHazQBN
    • Anyway, she lives in NY. So good luck with that. Not sure how you're going to make this happen. Is she going to drop out of school for you?iCanHazQBN
    • Also, post pics.iCanHazQBN
    • sea_sea called it red flags all over this shitebklyndroobeki
    • Sorry, didn't mean to be insensitive to the feels going on, but if she mentioned her bf it was so it was clear there was another person.sea_sea
    • If anything get inspired. go make some art, music, write something, anything. Good luck.sea_sea
    • If I felt like I loved someone (truly) within a weeks time, I'd ask myself why I was this into someone who was unavailable & proceed with caution.bklyndroobeki
    • sea's right, use that emotion to make some shit. unless they are in an open relationship of course... then drink, and fuck, drink and fuck...bklyndroobeki
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