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this is why you need tell your kid to wrap it up
"My gf and i have been together for 2 years now and everything has been perfect, but we started having sex 4 months ago when we decided we were ready. I love her so much. She said she was on birth control for acne (her parents are really strict and don't think shes having sex) and I believed her so we didnt use condoms at all. 2 weeks ago she said that her period is late so we went to the drug store to buy a pregnancy test. The test said that she is pregnant.
I was so upset and started crying and asked her how could this happen? She told me that she had beenm lying about the birth control and that she stopped taking it 2 months ago so that she could have a baby. Our relationship was great before and we are so young, why does she want a baby??? I want to go to college and be a game designer but how can i do that if im taking care of a kid? I thought she wants to go to college to?
I got angry and started yelling at her and she kept apologizing and crying, but i calmed down after a bit because my energy was gone and just went home (she took the test in school after it was out). I don't know what to do, im so overwhelmed and hurt. How can we have a kid so young? How the hell am i going to tell my parents and her parents that my gf is having a kid?? what is going to happen to my future? I know our parents won't let her get an abortion and i dont know if adoption is on the table. What do i do with my girlfirend? She lied to me and ruined my future, but i love her so much. She is carrying my child, but she betrayed me and broke my heart. Now i am going to be a father when i am just a kid myself. Please help me reddit. I need all the advice i can get about everything.
tl;dr: Please read, my gf is pregnant and my parents don't know, i am so scared and stressed