Ever been bullied?

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    I once bullied a kid, without really appreciating what it was I was doing.

    An English kid, not very offensive - christ, I can't even remember why I and the others didn't like him.

    I'd just gotten a printer (Citizen colour dot Matrix, oh yeaah) and would dabble with things in Deluxe Paint.

    I made up badges and a membership/allegiance form for the 'AWA', which stood for the 'Anti W---- Association' (W--- being his surname). Got a load of the kids in my class to sign up (poor kid wasn't exactly popular) and ... well, can't remember much more than that - it was a pointless secret cabal that didn't do anything other than exist for a non-purpose.

    My form teacher found one of the forms.

    I was always a bit of a twat in school - always in trouble, but I had good relationships with the teachers who weren't fundamentally assholes - they knew I wasn't a total toad, I knew where to draw the line most of the time.

    My form teahcer was one of my favourite teachers for this reason - he'd throw me out of class pretty much every lesson because I was being a show-off dick or whatever, but we always got on and he was a solid teacher.

    He called me ‘Evil’.

    At that moment I took a step back from myself and realised what an utter, utter shit I'd been.

    Parents informed, made to come in - personal apologies made.

    Mine was sincere and heartfelt - i felt terrible. I have no doubt he thought I was just filling in gaps, saying words to appease, none of it meant.

    Still feel bad about this episode to this day.

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    I bet he's a multimillionaire somewhere now.

    • maybe you should make some apology signs and put them up in his neighborhoodcannonball1978
    • haha, this was all 20-odd years ago, in a country a thousand miles away. I've no idea where he is now.detritus

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