Ever been bullied?
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Yeah I was bullied a whole heap at high school/secondary school. Mainly the first 3 and a half years. They were bastards, beat me, used me to help them with their homework then told the teachers I'd copied theirs, verbally were horrid, broke into my locker and stole my Panasonic cd Walkman that id worked and saved for all summer.
The teachers were told, they did nothing, the bullies used to do most of it when the teachers left the room, or in the corridors. My mum took me to a parents evening once and made me take off my top to show them my bruises, they made accusations that it was happening at home, fucking shitty man.
My mum made all the effort with it all and went to these kids homes to speak to the parents. Only one helped, she was the mother of the tallest and the most verbal of the bullies. She owned a corner shop and her son helped himself to fags, money, food even rolls of scratch cards. She told my mum to tell me that all I could do was look after myself.
My dad was useless, never got on with the man...
It took me a huge amount of something to do something about it. I waited until they next started on me, in an art class, giving me grief about pocket money, so I turned to biggest one and said that the only reason he got £20 a week as his mother hated him. He didn't take to kindly to that, got up, pulled me off my chair and hit me in the eye. With all my power, anger and rage I fucking smashed that cunt right on the nose! I used to swim for the county and was no string bean, he hit his head off the wall....goodnight!
The teachers suspended me, mum was cool about it, dad wasn't but I didnt care! When I came back to school all the bullies wanted to be my best mate!
It was far better after that and I suppose it shaped me into who I am, I don't take shit, but I'm not one to dish it out either. I suppose it's down to how you delt with it at the time. I'll be honest and there was a point where I wanted to top myself, but that's cowardly and selfish. I put it all down to my mum being the one who helped me through it, that and my right hook!
- Jesus, dude, glad you got the best of the asshole. From what you hear about these days, what you went through sounds like enough to push todays kids over the edge.elahon
- enough to push todays kids over the edge, sad to say. Fuck bullies.elahon
- Yeah they are all cunts, group mentalities, get them on their own and they brick it. I remember hearing the rest say...cruddlebub
- "Fuck.... What a punch" after I hit the prick! Hahaha and all the class cheering!! I burst into tears!cruddlebub
- I have a 6 year old who's been getting teased by some of his class friends. I've taught him how to punch from a young age...cruddlebub
- But told him never to go around being horrible and I can put my hand on my heart and say I know he hasn't...cruddlebub
- His school report was excellent, and I am proud of him. If these kids keep picking on him, I've told him to give them 3 warnings...cruddlebub
- Warnings... After the third... Swing away Eli! Haha. Hopefully he won't need to as I've contacted the school...cruddlebub
- Best of luck with your son's situation. My boy is 6, too, but nothing like this has come up for him. *knock on woodelahon
- the teachers have been good, i'd noticed a change in his mood as he was getting angry very quickly...cruddlebub
- he told me what was going on. its been about a week now without any more. the teachers have had to tell these kids off a lot.cruddlebub
- lot, they must of got bored.cruddlebub