girlfriend not supportive?

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    I've lived in 4 different countries and have followed my girlfriend on 2 major moves. To me it doesn't really need much thought as we want to be together.

    Have you talked to your girlfriend about any future plans she has or how she would like to see her future? It helps to both talk about what you want to get out of life and whether you can work toward it together. It soon becomes pretty clear if you both want really different things.

    Kids do tie you down a bit and she probably still feels dependant on their dad and feels like she has to stick around. You have to decide whether you love her enough to deal with that.

    Follow your dreams man and if you can do it together that is awesome.

    • She wants a family, a strong bond. I do too but I think if there is an opportunity to go to NYC for Journalism I should take it.HijoDMaite
    • take it. I do not necessarily want to stay in NY I just want a couple years in the city.HijoDMaite
    • I think it would be good for my career.HijoDMaite
    • it would be great for your stimulus & your creative growth hopefully your girls follow you..e-pill

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