girlfriend not supportive?
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Sweet girls can be manipulative, believe me, I know! and many guys are blind to see it. I think she could live with herself for doing that if it meant that you'd not be moving across the country. I don't exactly see why she is bringing up engagement, other than to try to get you to stick around. It doesn't make sense. Engaged people break up, married people split up... What good will you future life be if you end up resent her and her children for closing the door on your dreams?
It doesn't mean she is a rotten person, but yes, scared. But if it means she can get you to propose...then she got her way. That's a decision you should be coming to on you own terms.
If she's worth her weight and loves, and can't logistically move, she'll be there when you get back, or you two will make it through the couple years that you're gone.
- Sorry for the typos. I am typing curiously fast in this heated debate. lolQBNdesignr
- I think she craves the security. But yes that's what I'm saying. she equates grad school withHijoDMaite
- breakup and I don't.HijoDMaite