Divorce just got ugly
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- satogami0
hi capn... sorry to hear, i recently went thru a divorce as well. what i had thought we were doing was an amicable divorce, we were going to be separated for 1 year then just goto a judge and have our marriage all-nulled but to my surprise i was served, in a nasty way too, i mean its laughable how it happened it was liek pineapple express d00d aasking me my name to confirm the handoff and him saying he is just the messenger... meh... well that was last year... and thus the process started of lawyer to lawyer... the entire process for us {New York State} 1.5 years... its a long prrocess and i think ours got rushed thru the cracks... in that time my ex wife and i werent speaking but we stilled respected each other... i speak to her once a month... her best friend is still my best friend so its all a big happy mess for everyone...
my advice to you is to focus on you... if you have to hold in the pain do that, if you have to cry it out do that, if you have to go and punch a punching bag go do that!!! also if she is asking for anything just give it... money material things is worthless... and holding on makes it that much more painful to let go... and i have not let go yet... meh but im a fool i guess... i know we wont get back to gether but i still love my ex... its a hard day by day... and its going to get harder as the time goes on... i dont want to candy coat it... get ready for some intense emotions, you havent seen anything yet... take care and smoke a fatty... do you guys btw have children? if yes my wishes go to them...if not then its for the better..
good luck nt brother!!!
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- also we were married 10 years and 2 days ago was my anniversary of 11 years...satogami
- so i know what you going thru and im in your corner!!!satogami
- no kids, thankfully. I appreciate your experienced words. I am going to focus on me and try to be civil with her.capn_ron
- October 11th is my birthday and the 29th would have been 4 full years of marraigecapn_ron
- really thanks again. I appreciate it.capn_ron
- thats the best thing. it will make it easier to transition in moving on and getting laid..satogami
- jesus christ, go have a beer on us satogami, this has gotta be a shit week for you buddy.airey
- thanks airey... i respect that and will take you on that advice.satogami
- its all good i got all my frustration out on the Levi's blog guy... hahaha ...satogami