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Corvo, I'm all for you wanting a meaningful real relationship with someone, if you really like someone and sex doesn't come to mind even a little, then WTF are you on about? Why be attracted but not proud of this physical lust you feel toward someone? man i love the tingles, and she does too... she wonders if you'll touch her, when you'll go in for the kiss, text when you shouldn't (she wont reply but she'll smile) etc. Girls want all this too. there is no romance without the risk of it between you both (if you're only thinking about your side, you're already being selfish)
i only suggest "the fap" because it helps get the nerves out and your brain thinking normally again, last thing you need to do is acting like you don't want to sex her because all of a sudden the idea pops in your mind in the middle of dinner, then you stammer, turn shy, and the night ends early
and I quote... from a girl i expressed feelings for way back when (without being creepy, just myself and honest)
"It's nice to know that there are at least some men out there that have the balls to say such things in such very casual ways"
Trust me man, being yourself and open without building yourself up will set you so far apart from the normal douches that hit on her that it's bound to succeed
beside being yourself is easier come rejection time, that way you're not telling yourself "Why didn't i just be myself"
now get to fapping boy!