taking a break from your gf
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- jox0
Man, I'm sorry. Fucking women and their games, I've been through the exact same thing. What I'm gonna tell you is gonna make it feel worse right now but it'll probably help you move on. I believe I got the tip on NT in the first place.
A "break" has in my experience never worked, it just drags the pain out over a longer period of time. I took a break from my girlfriend of 4 years for about a month. We got back together because she came to the conclusion "that she did love me" or some fucking crap. Went on together for 6 months when she made up her mind once again. It's like when your heart has finally healed again, she brings out a the meatcleaver and rips it right out again.
It must be extremely difficult for you being in a new city, but the best advice I can give you is to move on. Make new friends. It's gonna hurt for a while but the old cliches work, time heals everything.
This may sound insane but NT has helped me deal with some difficult times in life, when I didn't have the energy to go over and cry at a friend's.
Good luck my friend. And remember, what doesn't kill you only makes you stornger.