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- valentim
if anyone remember my post about me falling for someone I met and wasn´t quite sure when to tell her: http://www.qbn.com/topics/547991…
We have now been together for a while, she is a great girl, and we are amazing together...but i have another problem now!
She is going to be away for a long time (work) and quite far, I am not the kinda of guy that reads all the consequences of my actions,or think about them in a serious manner, starting with the immediate ones, then the probable, the possible and the imaginable, just cause otherwise I wouldn’t move from where my first thought made me stop!But it is at this point i found myself obviously sad, I do care about this woman, but 6 months away from her a lot can happen and I need to know the opinion of you strangers out there to position myself....i have been thinking too much about it and i cant focused in a sensible conclusion!
- hallelujah0
why draw a conclusion before it happens?
- Poo - I thought this was a thread about weeing yourselfcosmicEntity
- anxiousarms0
grow up and be a man. break up with her if you wanna whore around. otherwise be true and trust her to be too. 6 months is nothing.
*que idiotic, chauvinistic responses now...*
- mimeartist_com0
stop thinking about it so much
- SkyPoo0
Have you wet yourself?
I only read the title.
- robotron3k0
see if she's up for a tattoo with your name in her private area...
- fyoucher10
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- CALLES0
gonorrhea?
- flavorful0
GO BACK TO YAYHOORAY
madirish
(Apr 8, 08, 9:41 a.m.)
- valentim0
ffs
- JT20000
I feel your pain valentim. I'm in a similar situation. If you're meant to be together, 6 months won't matter. You will both find each other again so to speak. If not, then you should look back and be grateful for those memories.
How does she feel about all this?
- JazX0
- kinda feel like that...valentim
- that's real sh*tty my friendJazX
- Captian Picard as a young cadet I belive.cosmicEntity
- cashface0
cut print gay
- allysin0
I don't see why you have to come to a conclusion about the separation at this point. Are you maybe looking at this as an excuse or catalyst to end the relationship? I don't mean that in a rude way. I just think that sometimes if things are just going ok, without something glaringly wrong it isn't always obvious that you want a change. Maybe the fact that you are asking this question instead of just gearing up to miss her for six months is a signal that you are ready for something different. In which case, just be honest and go with that. This would be a good time to end things in that case because of the natural separation that will occur anyway. But if you really do want to still be with her then 6 months is nothing. Truly nothing.
- paraselene0
mate, your english has seriously improved since you first joined nt!!!
- designbot0
6 months really is nothing. When my wife (girlfriend at the time) and I hooked back up (after 6 years or so) we had a long distance relationship for 8 months. It was hard at times, but the time flew by so fast. Long distance can actually be a good thing since you will be forced to talk on the phone alot, it will help you get to know each other on a deeper, more intellectual level...which imo is really important especially if you are considering spending your life with her (getting married). It is pretty amazing how deep you can get to know someone when all you can do is talk to each other. Also I think it can be a deciding factor as the distance thing will most likely end it for you if your not serious about each other.
- allysin0
valentim - I think i probably misunderstood then. No one ever knows what situation they will be in in the future. If you can, I would try to not put yourself through this pain prematurely. I would just focus on being with her right now. 6 months apart will probably be hard, but I promise that it goes by quicker than you think. And when she does leave for her trip you can maybe take comfort in knowing that there is someone far away thinking about you and wishing as much as you that they could be near you.
- valentim0
its is actually starting to make a lot more sense all this distance thing, maybe ins´t such a bad thing in a way...just dont want to loose someone for the that reason, knowing how much i love to be next to her, in other hand if things dont work out its cause it wasn´t suppose to be, right? In any case I have spent an amazing time with this girl already....i am in th ehands of time and faith, thank you all
- Llyod0
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