unwelcomed visitor
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- brains0
hey 2cents, can I come visit ? I'll be in van in the next little while ? I'll make you pancakes if you take me shopping ?
- Rand0
all are welcome
- BonSeff0
Fine. I wont come up and visit you.
GOSH!
- Rand0
you are already here
- _salisae_0
awww rand can i come stay with you?
- Rand0
open your heart and realize that you and he are actually one
- 305artist0
Tell him he should realize his mental problems and do something about it. Assholes.
- piperboytoy0
thanks for your support. I will email him today and tell him straight up that he's not welcomed and i will not make time for him. In my head, I just want to tell him off.
- lvl_130
i can understand how you feel. i would feel bad if i was just to straight up tell this dude off...but he really does sound like an ass. the longer you avoid just telling him you aren't comfortable having him stay at your place, the harder it's going to be later. just do it. you don't need shit like that eating away at you.
- caulfield0
tell him it's cool if you can send some of your own friends to go and stay with him first.
Then, when the moocher parts his monstrous lips to give you his address, post it up at his local homeless shelter.
Hahaha, his house will smell like homeless people. Oh maaaan that's so funny and not at all degrading.
- 2cents0
i would be honest and tell him no dice man.
i would tell him staright up that it aint gonna happen.
i had to deal with it when i lived in whistler... people i never really liked from HS or college calling me up for a free stay on holidays... fuck that.
i'm no charity hostel... stay in a hotel or something like everyone esle.
- rasp0
send him a link to this thread
- _salisae_0
hahahaha
you really feel out of control here? just tell him you're uncomfortable with the situation. no need to give details.
- piperboytoy0
:( help!
- gruntt0
he sounds like such a prick.
good luck.
- piperboytoy0
Oh god, the last thing I need is for him to show up at my work. But thank god, he'll probably never find me because our offices are pretty hard to find if you don't know the area.
My friend told him taht I was going on vacation the week that he was suppose to come, but he changed his plans to the following week! So i can take him shopping or something like that. :(
- rasp0
either ignore the guy, tell him you will be away that month or tell him he's not welcome.
last thing you want is him turning up at your work if you dont like him.
my guess is he wants to saty for 'a few days' that will turn into weeks / months
- piperboytoy0
I have to reply because he did a search and found my work address. He's known to be pushy!
I guess I will have to say he's not welcomed in my life and he should leave me alone. I hope that will do the trick. I hate being harrased like that.
- save0
Don't reply, simple.
- toastie0
hey, no, i was just kidding, what's wrong with you people :P
tell him some bullshit