gay anti gay?
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- 000000
why do some people become anti gay because they're too ashamed of coming out of the closet.
the suffering of living a double life, the lies and deceptions and off course the shame of getting caught in your bed by your wife
another thing why are they almost always republicans??
- skt0
shut it, poof.
- Khurram0
well... this is an interesting theory.... but then, this would make, taking the rampant homophobia on this forum, 99% of designers gay and they would be republican. Whereas most of them are democrats, seemingly.
- homophobia here?
everyone sucks on jaline's dick000000 - what the...Jaline
- lolPIITB
- racistflashbender
- homophobia here?
- monkeyshine0
or priests? we live in a homophobic culture and that homophobia creates self hatred and shame.
- and then they ruin the fun for everyone else by imposing their rigidity and hatred hidden in "morality".monkeyshine
- 0000000
btw this is the story
- chossy0
Christ all mighty who gives a shit about what kind of deviant you are. Every single human being in the world likes some freaky sexy stuff.
- 0000000
i guess some of us are just hypocrites.
- kelpie0
I blame the muslims
- its just a default position these days. I'm sure they have a hand in our shitty weather too.kelpie
- it was more takin piss outtta chossy for getting riled up about josimar's name being posted in't other threadKhurram
- don't back down out yer huff nowkelpie
- lol. i wasn't! honest! gawd, this is a comedy of errors if ever there was one...Khurram
- hahaha, I know man, I know, I'm only kiddingkelpie
- Khurram0
explain yourself Simon Mackenzie.
- Khurram0
(some of you know him as kelpie)
- kelpie0
ok, I blame the Tories.
(want your rattle back?)
- Spookytim0
Get a room you pair of tackle munchers.
- six0
homophobia stems from a fear of ones own sexuality IMO. i am a gay man and have many straight friends who obviously see me for who i am and not for my sexual preference. I have been together with my partner for 10 months and he has come from a straight marriage of 20 yrs with 3 kids. Obviously a massive step for him, he has been amazed by the support and encouragement he has received from family, friends and work colleagues. NO-ONE (apart from his wife) has treated him any different. even his kids, who are 18, 17 and 14 have excepted him for who he (finally) is.
my point is, is it really an issue anymore? do people really care? apart from these extremist nutters who have obviously something to hide themselves. i have been gay all my life and experienced very little homophobia, but i know people who have. maybe its the world and culture (creative) that i live in...
- Khurram0
well that's all lovely six. but the homophobia on here's more insidious. It's like the people who throw up threads like "proof that George Bush is gay," with amusingly doctored photos.
I'm all like, what does it matter if he was or wasn't? How would that change anything? Isn't that just like a none thing?
You get it all over the place. I mean, yeah i use the word "fag" and "faggotry" all over t'place, but that's just me. I'm a self-absorbed douchebag with few redeeming qualities except my ripped abs....
I'm glad that you've stepped up tho, six. I'm sure there's more gay men on these boards who just roll their eyes when that childish nonsense comes up. I say, let's open up this debate WIDER (excuse the pun).
- there's a gay Bush thread?harlequino
- well there was, and i was just like "wtf? this is frat boy bullshit"Khurram
- Pun? What are you implying here?cannonball1978
- moth0
You are progressing down that path though Kuz. Your get up last night was definitely veering on the wrong side of metrosexuality.
- Spookytim0
I've always said you don't have to be a gay to satisfy your man in bed.
- monkeyshine0
Khurram, the "Bush is gay" talk isn't necessarily homophobic. And what does it matter is relevant in the following context. When you look at all of these uber gay bashing conservatives who have been found out (be it in airport bathroom stalls or congress) to be closeted homosexuals then you begin to see what's really driving homophobia. Bill Maher often half jokes about how these conservative politicians and public christian figures are gay. It's the "thou protesteth too much" syndrome.
- yes true but by using the word "gay" as derogatory slang ultimately demeans gay peopleautomaticiam
- Carl_Weathers0
'Man dies in fairy eating contest'
- harlequino0
If someone has been taught through whatever ultra conservative upbringing and guidance, that homosexuality is wrong, and that they themselves have to measure up to this rigid concept of morality and righteousness, and that person then is gay themselves - then it makes sense that they will learn to not only hate themselves so deeply but to also hate homosexuals with even greater fervor and gusto*.
(*Ed. note: having 'gusto' in and of itself is a reference to flamboyance and/or the fashionable and decorative sensibilities. See what I did there?)
- hahaha you said "Ed. note:" and your name is Ed. hilarious!7point34
- ... that was the joke right?
don't worry, i'm just JOSHing you7point34 - So your name's Bruce, right?harlequino
- *snarky cackleharlequino
- Bruce Campbell. shop smart. shop s-mart7point34
- Groovy...harlequino
- moth0
Sorry monkeyshine, while that may sometimes be the case, I think your accusation of homophobics being closeted homosexuals is just something concocted to make you feel better and "understand" homophobia.
It's like telling your kids that it's the "taking part that counts" when they loose a game. That's bullshit too.
You need to accept that sometimes, there is no reasonable explanation for peoples behaviour.
- well, it's not an accusation and I didn't mean it as a blanket explanation. But people who are really obsessed withmonkeyshine
- "stopping the gays" are suspect in my eyes.monkeyshine
- and no explainable reason for homophobia? It doesn't exist in a vacuum, ya know.monkeyshine
- Doesn't exist in black and white either.moth
