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    How do you know if/when someone in your life is "low value"?

    • Any key behaviors?notype
    • define low valueMaaku
    • when they take more than they givesarahfailin
    • when you make this post on qbnpinkfloyd
    • when you ask the question you asked on here ;-)Krassy
    • @pinkfloyd ah, I posted before reading the notes :)Krassy
    • Asking because it may be time to cut out someone of my life but I’m struggling bc I love this guy. Been friends for years...notype
    • In hindsight I can see how this question with no conext comes off disingenuous.notype
    • The person in my life never makes time to hang, when we do he talks about himself never asking what’s taking place in my world, barely ever get a word innotype
    • Just looking at the relationships I have at this point in my life. Turning 40 is making me see the world in a new way kind of...notype
    • Sad to say this. Friends changes. Friends make new friends. There was a time I was the only few people willing to help this friend.pango
    • Not even the parents was willing to give a hand. Now this friend found new friends whom has the same problem as this friend. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯pango
    • I see... I'm only friends with the people that make an effort to stay in touch, the rest are just "buddies". Set him loose.Maaku
    • I have a friend that lives about 3 hours away. I moved to his state. I've visited him10 times. He's been here zero. Fuck him. I try my best not to think aboutitcanoe
    • When they are destructivesince1979
    • I have a "friend" like that. Is call him a really close client. I know his family, even. But I only keep in touch for the yearly contract, always 10k+ a year.shellie
    • ^Is=I'd. I wish he'd spend more time caring about my life. But, he's bought my aquaintence at the very least. I also think that's how he shows he cares. *shrug*shellie

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