girlfriend not supportive?

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  • PonyBoy0

    Why does she get upset when you bring up your goals and aspirations?

    If she's not supportive of you and your pursuits of bettering yourself - I'd personally step back and really evaluate my love for this woman. It sounds like you're being strong-armed into doing something you're not sure of (getting engaged) simply so you can have her approval to continue on toward your own personal goals... ... that doesn't sound too loving to me.

    The kids aren't yours - if you love them... so be it. That's your choice though. Where the FUCK is Baby-Daddy btw? (please don't say he was killed in Iraq or something... we need someone else to hate on here)

    I hear what Mister is saying as far as who pays the bills now etc... but in the end - you haven't adopted those girls. Mommy can't let you pursue things important to you that you technically have every right to pursue... sounds awfully self-centered on her part (especially if "She get's crazy" whenever you bring it up).

    • The daddy is around and paying the bills that he should be paying. So this is part of the reason whyHijoDMaite
    • I don't understand why she is being so needy as if her and the kids will fall apart with out me for a little while.HijoDMaite

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